18th February, 2024
London (Edgware rd, Halal venue)
London (Edgware rd, Halal venue)
From "Like" to Nikah: How to get to know each other in a halal way
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From "Like" to Nikah: how to get to know each other in a halal way
18th February, 2024
London (Edgware rd, Halal venue)
London (Edgware rd, Halal venue)
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You matched, and now what?
No idea what to do after matching? Who should start conversation and what to talk about? We cover all this in the training!
Do not know how to answer tough questions or avoid taboo topics?
Navigate the potential pitfalls of sensitive topics with grace. Learn about cultural sensitivities and common taboos in the context of Muslim relationships, ensuring that your conversations are respectful and considerate.
Should you have one meeting or meet each other for one year?
Explore the ideal timeline for getting to know your potential spouse in a halal way. Our training provides insights into the pacing of the relationship, helping you strike the right balance between thorough understanding and the natural progression of your connection.
You matched, and now what?
No idea what to do after matching? Who should start conversation and what to talk about? We cover all this in the training!
Do not know how to answer tough questions or avoid taboo topics?
Navigate the potential pitfalls of sensitive topics with grace. Learn about cultural sensitivities and common taboos in the context of Muslim relationships, ensuring that your conversations are respectful and considerate.
Should you have one meeting or meet each other for one year?
Explore the ideal timeline for getting to know your potential spouse in a halal way. Our training provides insights into the pacing of the relationship, helping you strike the right balance between thorough understanding and the natural progression of your connection.
Did you know?
40% of the UK population is single (adults)
Frightening statistics
1 in 4 of today's adults will never marry (Pew Research Center)
Solution
Discover your future spouse and join the ranks of blissfully married statistics!
Did you know?
40% of the UK population is single (adults)
Freightening statistics
1 in 4 of today's adults will never marry (Pew Research Center)
Solution
Discover your future spouse and join the ranks of blissfully married statistics!
A Journey from 'Like' to Nikah with Wisdom and Purpose
Embark on a purposeful journey of connection and commitment with our training program, especially created to guide you through the intricate path from expressing initial interest ("Like") to the sacred union of Nikah.
In the initial phase, "Foundations of Connection," we help you to develop effective communication skills that go beyond words (for that important first conversation), fostering openness and sincerity. Navigate the cultural sensitivities within Muslim communities, ensuring your journey is respectful and considerate.
Moving forward to the second phase, "Getting to Know Each Other," master the art of thoughtful questioning. Discover how to involve families without compromising your privacy, striking a balance that provides support while preserving the sanctity of the connection. Gain practical insights into conducting due diligence in a manner that aligns with Halal principles.
The final phase, "Paving the Path to Nikah," is a transformative journey of preparation for a successful marriage. Explore the ideal timeline for understanding your potential spouse, ensuring a balanced and informed approach to the relationship. Equip yourself with the skills to handle challenging questions with authenticity, preserving your integrity throughout the process. Conclude by creating a shared vision for Nikah, reflecting on values, goals, and aspirations.
This training is not just about finding a connection; it's about nurturing a bond that leads to a blessed and fulfilling marriage.
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"And among His Signs is this, that He created for you mates from among yourselves, that ye may dwell in tranquility with them, and He has put love and mercy between your (hearts): verily in that are Signs for those who reflect."
Quran 30:21
Quran 30:21
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Take the first step towards understanding how to approach relationships in a manner that is pleasing to Allah. Register for our training program and gain the knowledge and confidence to navigate the path from "Like" to Nikah.
A Journey from 'Like' to Nikah with Wisdom and Purpose
Embark on a purposeful journey of connection and commitment with our training program, especially created to guide you through the intricate path from expressing initial interest ("Like") to the sacred union of Nikah.
In the initial phase, "Foundations of Connection," we help you to develop effective communication skills that go beyond words (for that important first conversation), fostering openness and sincerity. Navigate the cultural sensitivities within Muslim communities, ensuring your journey is respectful and considerate.
Moving forward to the second phase, "Getting to Know Each Other," master the art of thoughtful questioning. Discover how to involve families without compromising your privacy, striking a balance that provides support while preserving the sanctity of the connection. Gain practical insights into conducting due diligence in a manner that aligns with Halal principles.
The final phase, "Paving the Path to Nikah," is a transformative journey of preparation for a successful marriage. Explore the ideal timeline for understanding your potential spouse, ensuring a balanced and informed approach to the relationship. Equip yourself with the skills to handle challenging questions with authenticity, preserving your integrity throughout the process. Conclude by creating a shared vision for Nikah, reflecting on values, goals, and aspirations.
This training is not just about finding a connection; it's about nurturing a bond that leads to a blessed and fulfilling marriage.
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"And among His Signs is this, that He created for you mates from among yourselves, that ye may dwell in tranquility with them, and He has put love and mercy between your (hearts): verily in that are Signs for those who reflect."
Quran 30:21
Quran 30:21
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Take the first step towards understanding how to approach relationships in a manner that is pleasing to Allah. Register for our training program and gain the knowledge and confidence to navigate the path from "Like" to Nikah.
In the training, you will:
Learn what you can do to get to know Your potential spouse
Understand why falling in love is not the key to a happy marriage
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Get to know why it’s not enough just to marry a pious Muslim to be happy,l but you need to get to know them
Discover how to build a solid foundation for a happy and successful marriage
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Find why we should not meet the spouse like our ancestors did, without getting to know them
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Learn where and how get to know each other in a "halal" way
Explore how to discover the expectations of the other party and find a way to meet in the middle for a harmonious compromise.
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This training is for you if:
- You are Muslim and YOU (not your mother, auntie or grandparents) are serious about getting married.
- The thought of starting a conversation feels overwhelming when you like someone.
- You're unsure about what questions to ask and how to avoid making your conversations sound like job interview.
- You know that, with the will of Allah, everything is possible, including your happy marriage.
- Your family is unfamiliar with your potential spouse and their family, making due diligence a challenging process.
This training is for you if:
- You are Muslim and YOU (not your mother, auntie or grandparents) are serious about getting married.
- The thought of starting a conversation feels overwhelming when you like someone.
- You're unsure about what questions to ask and how to avoid making your conversations sound like job interview.
- You know that, with the will of Allah, everything is possible, including your happy marriage.
- Your family is unfamiliar with your potential spouse and their family, making due diligence a challenging process.
Training plan
Training plan
The training is divided into 3 parts:
1. FOUNDATIONS OF CONNECTION: Establish a Halal Connection
- First steps to establish a successful connection.
- Understand the principles of Halal courtship, ensuring your journey aligns with Islamic values.
- Develop effective communication skills rooted in sincerity and respect.
2. GETTING TO KNOW EACH OTHER: Deepen your Understanding
- Master thoughtful questioning techniques that foster understanding without feeling like a job interview.
- Learn how to involve families appropriately, striking a balance between privacy and familial support.
- Gain practical tips for conducting due diligence in a Halal manner.
3. PAVING THE PATH TO NIKAH: Preparation for a Successful Marriage
- Explore the ideal timeline for getting to know a potential spouse, ensuring a balanced and informed approach.
- Equip yourself with skills to handle challenging questions with sincerity and integrity.
- Create a shared vision for Nikah, reflecting on values, goals, and expectations for a fulfilling marriage.
After the training you will:
Possess the skills to confidently start conversations with a potential spouse, transforming initial interactions into engaging and purposeful dialogues.
Master the art of due diligence, involving your family effectively in the process of understanding your potential spouse and their family, while upholding the principles of Halal connections.
Have a clear understanding of how to navigate the complexities of getting to know someone in a halal way, ensuring your journey is guided by Islamic principles.
Understand the ideal timeline for getting to know your potential spouse, allowing you to navigate the relationship journey with a balanced and informed approach.
Have insights into handling challenging questions with authenticity and wisdom, ensuring you can respond thoughtfully while preserving your integrity in the face of difficult inquiries.
After the training you will:
Possess the skills to confidently start conversations with a potential spouse, transforming initial interactions into engaging and purposeful dialogues.
Master the art of due diligence, involving your family effectively in the process of understanding your potential spouse and their family, while upholding the principles of Halal connections.
Have a clear understanding of how to navigate the complexities of getting to know someone in a halal way, ensuring your journey is guided by Islamic principles.
Understand the ideal timeline for getting to know your potential spouse, allowing you to navigate the relationship journey with a balanced and informed approach.
Have insights into handling challenging questions with authenticity and wisdom, ensuring you can respond thoughtfully while preserving your integrity in the face of difficult inquiries.
Meet your trainer: Margarita Miller
- Margarita's insatiable curiosity about the world has propelled her on extensive travels from a young age, fostering not only a deep love for exploration but also providing profound insights into different cultures and the intricate dynamics of relationships within them.
- A significant turning point occurred when her grandmother gifted her the book "Princess," opening doors to the Middle East and sparking Margarita's intense fascination with the region. This fascination not only steered her academic and professional pursuits but also led her to actively embrace Islam.
- Actively engaged in international conferences since the age of 16, Margarita has been a catalyst in organising various projects and events. Her studies in International Relations spanned four countries, including Bath, UK, where she wrote a thesis focused on the Middle East.
- A certified ICF coach since 2014, Margarita brings a wealth of coaching expertise to her role as your host and trainer.
- Organising Muslim events in London since 2015, Margarita has solidified her reputation as a dedicated and experienced event organiser within the Muslim community.
- Neurographica Instructor since 2019.
- After founding Find Your Spouse in 2020, Margarita has organised over 20 events, facilitating Muslim participants in their quest to find a spouse. The results speak for themselves, with several happy marriages already blossoming from the connections made at these events.
- As your host and trainer, Margarita skillfully draws on her extensive global experiences to expertly guide you on a transformative journey of self-discovery, helping you find your ideal spouse and envision a harmonious future.
Who is Margarita?
Founder of Find Your Spouse
International Coach
Neurographica Instructor
International Coach
Neurographica Instructor
Meet your trainer:
Margarita Miller
Margarita Miller
Who is Margarita?
Founder of Find Your Spouse
International Coach
Neurographica Instructor
International Coach
Neurographica Instructor
- Margarita's insatiable curiosity about the world has propelled her on extensive travels from a young age, fostering not only a deep love for exploration but also providing profound insights into different cultures and the intricate dynamics of relationships within them.
- A significant turning point occurred when her grandmother gifted her the book "Princess," opening doors to the Middle East and sparking Margarita's intense fascination with the region. This fascination not only steered her academic and professional pursuits but also led her to actively embrace Islam.
- Actively engaged in international conferences since the age of 16, Margarita has been a catalyst in organising various projects and events. Her studies in International Relations spanned four countries, including Bath, UK, where she wrote a thesis focused on the Middle East.
- A certified ICF coach since 2014, Margarita brings a wealth of coaching expertise to her role as your host and trainer.
- Organising Muslim events in London since 2015, Margarita has solidified her reputation as a dedicated and experienced event organiser within the Muslim community.
- Neurographica Instructor since 2019.
- After founding Find Your Spouse in 2020, Margarita has organised over 20 events, facilitating Muslim participants in their quest to find a spouse. The results speak for themselves, with several happy marriages already blossoming from the connections made at these events.
- As your host and trainer, Margarita skillfully draws on her extensive global experiences to expertly guide you on a transformative journey of self-discovery, helping you find your ideal spouse and envision a harmonious future.
Why did I start this project? Relationships, connecting people was always my passion. I used to organise events for young people, work in business, then in one sisters’ group, which myself and other sisters created, the topic of finding a husband was always actual. And after discussion with the mosque, we realised that it is challenging also for brothers to find a spouse, as we are not living anymore in those close-knit communities like during Prophet’s Mohammed’s ﷺ times, where everyone knows each other. We live in mixed and quite lonely society nowadays.
Before starting Find Your Spouse project, during one year we did research to understand what’s the best way to help our ummah to increase happy marriage and reduce the number of lonely Muslims in our society. Now, 3 years from the beginning of the project, from the events I can see that participants often do not know who they are looking for, as in the room where are only Muslims who serious looking for a spouse, you cannot say “I am looking for a Muslim spouse” – as everyone present is.
No need to have 100s of chats, meeting people with whom is not interesting and who, you understand, won’t be the right partner for you. In order to avoid all this, first you need to understand who you are, as when you attend meetings with the purpose to meet your future partner, but do not like anyone, you feel like you are unlucky, like you are wasting your time, but you do not know why you do not like them. Our main goal is to help you to find out who you really are, what is important to you in life, and this will help you to find a spouse for yourself.
Before starting Find Your Spouse project, during one year we did research to understand what’s the best way to help our ummah to increase happy marriage and reduce the number of lonely Muslims in our society. Now, 3 years from the beginning of the project, from the events I can see that participants often do not know who they are looking for, as in the room where are only Muslims who serious looking for a spouse, you cannot say “I am looking for a Muslim spouse” – as everyone present is.
No need to have 100s of chats, meeting people with whom is not interesting and who, you understand, won’t be the right partner for you. In order to avoid all this, first you need to understand who you are, as when you attend meetings with the purpose to meet your future partner, but do not like anyone, you feel like you are unlucky, like you are wasting your time, but you do not know why you do not like them. Our main goal is to help you to find out who you really are, what is important to you in life, and this will help you to find a spouse for yourself.
"They are a garment for you, and you are a garment for them." QURAN – 2:187
We can be the best partner only if we understand the partner, and in order to understand, we need to explore ourselves first.Your Questions Answered
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What is the timing for the event?
Registration starts at 10:30am - you can get your tea/coffee (provided for free), you can even have a breakfast from the café upstairs (special discounted prices for the participants). Event starts at 11:00am, we have a lunch break around 13:30-14:30. We aim to finish around 16:30.
Can I come with Mahram?
You are welcome to come with your friends and family, but they have to participate in the training by themselves and pay registration fee.
Will it be mixed event?
Yes, as we will learn also about opposite genders' perspectives, but do not worry, we will keep halal distance.
Registration starts at 10:30am - you can get your tea/coffee (provided for free), you can even have a breakfast from the café upstairs (special discounted prices for the participants). Event starts at 11:00am, we have a lunch break around 13:30-14:30. We aim to finish around 16:30.
Can I come with Mahram?
You are welcome to come with your friends and family, but they have to participate in the training by themselves and pay registration fee.
Will it be mixed event?
Yes, as we will learn also about opposite genders' perspectives, but do not worry, we will keep halal distance.