10th December, 2023
London (Edgware rd, Halal venue)
London (Edgware rd, Halal venue)
Find Your Self
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Find Your Spouse
Training
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Find Your Spouse
Training
10th December, 2023
London (Edgware rd, Halal venue)
London (Edgware rd, Halal venue)
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Years of Fruitless Searching? It's Time for a Change!
If you've spent years searching for a Muslim spouse without achieving the desired result, it may be time to reevaluate your approach. Our training provides you with fresh insights and strategies to change your relationship journey for the better.
Are you exhausted by the Search for a Compatible Muslim Spouse?
Have you exhausted your efforts attending matching events and using dating apps, but still struggle to find the right Muslim spouse despite your persistence?
Have you looked beyond "Masters Degree" or "Loving and Caring"? Clarify Your Desires!
If you're unsure about what you truly seek in a partner beyond superficial criteria like educational qualifications or being "loving and caring," our training helps you gain clarity on your deeper relationship aspirations.
Years of Fruitless Searching? It's Time for a Change!
If you've spent years searching for a Muslim spouse without achieving the desired result, it may be time to reevaluate your approach. Our training provides you with fresh insights and strategies to change your relationship journey for the better.
Are you exhausted by the Search for a Compatible Muslim Spouse?
Have you exhausted your efforts attending matching events and using dating apps, but still struggle to find the right Muslim spouse despite your persistence?
Have you looked beyond "Masters Degree" or "Loving and Caring"? Clarify Your Desires!
If you're unsure about what you truly seek in a partner beyond superficial criteria like educational qualifications or being "loving and caring," our training helps you gain clarity on your deeper relationship aspirations.
Did you know?
40% of the UK population is single (adults)
Freightening statistics
1 in 4 of today's adults will never marry (Pew Research Center)
Solution
we never will find whom we are looking for until we find ourselves.
Did you know?
40% of the UK population is single (adults)
Freightening statistics
1 in 4 of today's adults will never marry (Pew Research Center)
Solution
We never will find whom we are looking for until we find ourselves.
Who are you looking for?
During the training we will explore who you are, who do you think you want, and we will find out what you really want and help you to find tools to get where you would like to be.
Everyone has his/her own, internal values. We might say, but we are Muslims, we have Islamic values! Yes, indeed, but Allah has 99 names, but I am sure some of them might be more familiar to you than the others. Human being is not God; thus you cannot excel and have the same importance for everything. Our families, societies where we grew up, books we read, friends who surround us and many more aspects shape us into who we are today. Everyone is unique. Thus, this training is about understanding:
For example, I grew up with dogs and cats, they always have been part of my family, thus in my new family I also would like to have dogs and cats, and quite a few Muslims might be against that. But it is my dealbreaker. For someone dealbreaker could be growth and development, i.e., attending trainings, courses vs watching Netflix.
- who you are,
- what are your values,
- internal priorities in life,
- what are your dealbreakers.
For example, I grew up with dogs and cats, they always have been part of my family, thus in my new family I also would like to have dogs and cats, and quite a few Muslims might be against that. But it is my dealbreaker. For someone dealbreaker could be growth and development, i.e., attending trainings, courses vs watching Netflix.
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"…the best clothing is righteousness. This is one of Allah’s bounties, so perhaps you will be mindful."
QURAN – 7:26
QURAN – 7:26
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We can all go towards the same goal, but choose different paths, so the task here is to understand what your path is and to find a good companion, who is also willing to share this path.
Only after you understand yourself very well, then you will be able to understand what kind of companion do you need, and which companion would be the best for you to share this path with.
Only after you understand yourself very well, then you will be able to understand what kind of companion do you need, and which companion would be the best for you to share this path with.
Who are you looking for?
During the training we will explore who you are, who do you think you want, and we will find out what you really want and help you to find tools to get where you would like to be.
Everyone has his/her own, internal values. We might say, but we are Muslims, we have Islamic values! Yes, indeed, but Allah has 99 names, but I am sure some of them might be more familiar to you than the others. Human being is not God; thus you cannot excel and have the same importance for everything. Our families, societies where we grew up, books we read, friends who surround us and many more aspects shape us into who we are today. Everyone is unique. Thus, this training is about understanding:
For example, I grew up with dogs and cats, they always have been part of my family, thus in my new family I also would like to have dogs and cats, and quite a few Muslims might be against that. But it is my dealbreaker. For someone dealbreaker could be growth and development, i.e., attending trainings, courses vs watching Netflix.
Everyone has his/her own, internal values. We might say, but we are Muslims, we have Islamic values! Yes, indeed, but Allah has 99 names, but I am sure some of them might be more familiar to you than the others. Human being is not God; thus you cannot excel and have the same importance for everything. Our families, societies where we grew up, books we read, friends who surround us and many more aspects shape us into who we are today. Everyone is unique. Thus, this training is about understanding:
- who you are,
- what are your values,
- internal priorities in life,
- what are your dealbreakers.
For example, I grew up with dogs and cats, they always have been part of my family, thus in my new family I also would like to have dogs and cats, and quite a few Muslims might be against that. But it is my dealbreaker. For someone dealbreaker could be growth and development, i.e., attending trainings, courses vs watching Netflix.
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"…the best clothing is righteousness. This is one of Allah’s bounties, so perhaps you will be mindful."
QURAN – 7:26
QURAN – 7:26
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We can all go towards the same goal, but choose different paths, so the task here is to understand what your path is and to find a good companion, who is also willing to share this path.
Only after you understand yourself very well, then you will be able to understand what kind of companion do you need, and which companion would be the best for you to share this path with.
Only after you understand yourself very well, then you will be able to understand what kind of companion do you need, and which companion would be the best for you to share this path with.
In the training, you will:
Learn what you can do to find Your spouse
Understand why falling in love is not the key to a happy marriage
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Get to know why it’s not enough just to marry a pious Muslim to be happy
Discover how to build a solid foundation for a happy and successful marriage
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Get acquainted with your true self & find why coming from a good family and being 6’ 10 is not enough to be a good spouse.
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Learn why marriage is not just for the sake of having kids
Discover the expectations of the other party and find a way to meet in the middle for a harmonious compromise.
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This training is for you if:
- You are Muslim and YOU (not your mother, auntie or grandparents) are serious about getting married.
- You are ready to take necessary actions, rather than just sit and wait till someone knocks on your door (or your profile).
- You know that, with the will of Allah, everything is possible, including your happy marriage.
- You do not want to settle just for a spouse, you want to find YOUR spouse with whom you could build the family of your dreams.
- You are ready to leave clicking “x” behind and finally find your true “V”.
This training is for you if:
- You are Muslim and YOU (not your mother, auntie or grandparents) are serious about getting married.
- You are ready to take necessary actions, rather than just sit and wait till someone knocks on your door (or your profile).
- You know that, with the will of Allah, everything is possible, including your happy marriage.
- You do not want to settle just for a spouse, you want to find YOUR spouse with whom you could build the family of your dreams.
- You are ready to leave clicking “x” behind and finally find your true “V”.
Training plan
The training is divided into 3 parts:
1. UNDERSTANDING YOURSELF:
- Discover who you are on a personal level—your joys, frustrations, sorrows, and excitements.
- Explore your background, encompassing family, education, fitness, hobbies, skills, free time, and appearance.
- Unveil your identity as a Muslim, and realistically assessing who you are and who you aspire to be in your faith.
- Define your future goals, priorities, and ensure that your desire for marriage aligns with the right reasons, making sure your relationship with Allah is at the core.
2. SEEKING YOUR SPOUSE:
- Delve into the journey of finding a life partner by seeking someone who shares your values or has complementary values.
- Reflect on whether you're searching for someone more pious, on the same spiritual wavelength, or possibly less devout.
- Evaluate the significance of the connection and goal similarity between you and your potential spouse.
3. PLANNING YOUR FUTURE TOGETHER
- Shape your vision for the future by outlining your individual plans in terms of career, education, and daily life responsibilities.
- Consider the collective aspirations for your family and your potential spouse.
- Ensuring alignment in goals, expectations, and roles within the marriage.
After the training you will:
Understand your values, your base (where you are at the moment) and interests.
Know your priorities in life.
Figure out how to prioritise, how to have the right light, which would attract the right partner for you, like a beacon.
As a result, you will save time and unnecessary actions.
After the training you will:
Understand your values, your base (where you are at the moment) and interests.
Know your priorities in life.
Figure out how to prioritise, how to have the right light, which would attract the right partner for you, like a beacon.
As a result, you will save time and unnecessary actions.
Meet your trainer: Margarita Miller
- Margarita's insatiable curiosity about the world has propelled her on extensive travels from a young age, fostering not only a deep love for exploration but also providing profound insights into different cultures and the intricate dynamics of relationships within them.
- A significant turning point occurred when her grandmother gifted her the book "Princess," opening doors to the Middle East and sparking Margarita's intense fascination with the region. This fascination not only steered her academic and professional pursuits but also led her to actively embrace Islam.
- Actively engaged in international conferences since the age of 16, Margarita has been a catalyst in organising various projects and events. Her studies in International Relations spanned four countries, including Bath, UK, where she wrote a thesis focused on the Middle East.
- A certified ICF coach since 2014, Margarita brings a wealth of coaching expertise to her role as your host and trainer.
- Organising Muslim events in London since 2015, Margarita has solidified her reputation as a dedicated and experienced event organiser within the Muslim community.
- Neurographica Instructor since 2019.
- After founding Find Your Spouse in 2020, Margarita has organised over 20 events, facilitating Muslim participants in their quest to find a spouse. The results speak for themselves, with several happy marriages already blossoming from the connections made at these events.
- As your host and trainer, Margarita skillfully draws on her extensive global experiences to expertly guide you on a transformative journey of self-discovery, helping you find your ideal spouse and envision a harmonious future.
Who is Margarita?
Founder of Find Your Spouse
International Coach
Neurographica Instructor
International Coach
Neurographica Instructor
Meet your trainer:
Margarita Miller
Margarita Miller
Who is Margarita?
Founder of Find Your Spouse
International Coach
Neurographica Instructor
International Coach
Neurographica Instructor
- Margarita's insatiable curiosity about the world has propelled her on extensive travels from a young age, fostering not only a deep love for exploration but also providing profound insights into different cultures and the intricate dynamics of relationships within them.
- A significant turning point occurred when her grandmother gifted her the book "Princess," opening doors to the Middle East and sparking Margarita's intense fascination with the region. This fascination not only steered her academic and professional pursuits but also led her to actively embrace Islam.
- Actively engaged in international conferences since the age of 16, Margarita has been a catalyst in organising various projects and events. Her studies in International Relations spanned four countries, including Bath, UK, where she wrote a thesis focused on the Middle East.
- A certified ICF coach since 2014, Margarita brings a wealth of coaching expertise to her role as your host and trainer.
- Organising Muslim events in London since 2015, Margarita has solidified her reputation as a dedicated and experienced event organiser within the Muslim community.
- Neurographica Instructor since 2019.
- After founding Find Your Spouse in 2020, Margarita has organised over 20 events, facilitating Muslim participants in their quest to find a spouse. The results speak for themselves, with several happy marriages already blossoming from the connections made at these events.
- As your host and trainer, Margarita skillfully draws on her extensive global experiences to expertly guide you on a transformative journey of self-discovery, helping you find your ideal spouse and envision a harmonious future.
Why did I start this project? Relationships, connecting people was always my passion. I used to organise events for young people, work in business, then in one sisters’ group, which myself and other sisters created, the topic of finding a husband was always actual. And after discussion with the mosque, we realised that it is challenging also for brothers to find a spouse, as we are not living anymore in those close-knit communities like during Prophet’s Mohammed’s ﷺ times, where everyone knows each other. We live in mixed and quite lonely society nowadays.
Before starting Find Your Spouse project, during one year we did research to understand what’s the best way to help our ummah to increase happy marriage and reduce the number of lonely Muslims in our society. Now, 3 years from the beginning of the project, from the events I can see that participants often do not know who they are looking for, as in the room where are only Muslims who serious looking for a spouse, you cannot say “I am looking for a Muslim spouse” – as everyone present is.
No need to have 100s of chats, meeting people with whom is not interesting and who, you understand, won’t be the right partner for you. In order to avoid all this, first you need to understand who you are, as when you attend meetings with the purpose to meet your future partner, but do not like anyone, you feel like you are unlucky, like you are wasting your time, but you do not know why you do not like them. Our main goal is to help you to find out who you really are, what is important to you in life, and this will help you to find a spouse for yourself.
Before starting Find Your Spouse project, during one year we did research to understand what’s the best way to help our ummah to increase happy marriage and reduce the number of lonely Muslims in our society. Now, 3 years from the beginning of the project, from the events I can see that participants often do not know who they are looking for, as in the room where are only Muslims who serious looking for a spouse, you cannot say “I am looking for a Muslim spouse” – as everyone present is.
No need to have 100s of chats, meeting people with whom is not interesting and who, you understand, won’t be the right partner for you. In order to avoid all this, first you need to understand who you are, as when you attend meetings with the purpose to meet your future partner, but do not like anyone, you feel like you are unlucky, like you are wasting your time, but you do not know why you do not like them. Our main goal is to help you to find out who you really are, what is important to you in life, and this will help you to find a spouse for yourself.
"They are a garment for you, and you are a garment for them." QURAN – 2:187
We can be the best partner only if we understand the partner, and in order to understand, we need to explore ourselves first.Your Questions Answered
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What is the timing for the event?
Registration starts at 10:30am - you can get your tea/coffee (provided for free), you can even have a breakfast from the café upstairs (special discounted prices for the participants). Event starts at 11:00am, we have a lunch break around 13:30-14:30 (lunch is not provided, but you can get it from the café, M&S or numerous restaurants on Edgware Rd). We aim to finish around 16:30.
Can I come with Mahram?
You are welcome to come with your friends and family, but they have to participate in the training by themselves as well and pay registration fee.
Will it be mixed event?
Yes, as we will learn also about opposite genders' perspectives, but do not worry, we will keep halal distance.
Registration starts at 10:30am - you can get your tea/coffee (provided for free), you can even have a breakfast from the café upstairs (special discounted prices for the participants). Event starts at 11:00am, we have a lunch break around 13:30-14:30 (lunch is not provided, but you can get it from the café, M&S or numerous restaurants on Edgware Rd). We aim to finish around 16:30.
Can I come with Mahram?
You are welcome to come with your friends and family, but they have to participate in the training by themselves as well and pay registration fee.
Will it be mixed event?
Yes, as we will learn also about opposite genders' perspectives, but do not worry, we will keep halal distance.