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Find Your Spouse
FIND YOUR SPOUSE IS A PROJECT DEDICATED TO HELP YOU TO FIND A MUSLIM SPOUSE FOR MARRIAGE
FREQUENTLY ASKED QUESTIONS
What is the typical age range of your members?
We have participants registered aged 18 years upwards to 65-year-old, but there is no maximum.
What is the ratio of male to female members?
This is ever changing as we are receiving new registrations every day. Also, it depends on age, in some ages ratio is 40/60, in others 50/50, and in some 60/40.  At our events, we aim to ensure an equal ratio of male to female attendance, but of course we cannot control if someone signs up and then cannot attend an event for some reason.
What is the success rate of this programme?
This programme had its first face to face event in September 2021, thus whilst it is too early to talk about marriage, we can happily say 40+ people had found their matches during the last two months.
How many matches am I likely to get?
Your matches depend on your profile and criteria you put for your spouse. The more realistic they are, the more matches you get. There is no minimum or maximum. For example, if someone puts that they are looking for a spouse who is 20 years younger, there is less chances of getting a match comparing to if you put that you are looking for someone closer to your age.
FREQUENTLY ASKED QUESTIONS
What is the typical age range of your members?
We have participants registered aged 18 years upwards to 65-year-old, but there is no maximum.
What is the ratio of male to female members?
This is ever changing as we are receiving new registrations every day. Also, it depends on age, in some ages ratio is 40/60, in others 50/50, and in some 60/40.  At our events, we aim to ensure an equal ratio of male to female attendance, but of course we cannot control if someone signs up and then cannot attend an event for some reason.
What is the success rate of this programme?
This programme had its first face to face event in September 2021, thus whilst it is too early to talk about marriage, we can happily say 40+ people had found their matches during the last two months.
How many matches am I likely to get?
Your matches depend on your profile and criteria you put for your spouse. The more realistic they are, the more matches you get. There is no minimum or maximum. For example, if someone puts that they are looking for a spouse who is 20 years younger, there is less chances of getting a match comparing to if you put that you are looking for someone closer to your age.
Can you guarantee I will find a husband/wife?
None can guarantee that you will find a husband/wife, only Allah knows. We do guarantee that we will work hard to personally introduce you to participants who fit your main criteria, if you fit theirs.
Why do you have a registration fee?
This allows us to provide you with a thorough and safe service by conducting personal meetings with all members confirming their identity and status. It also helps us give you the best quality service where we can talk with you to fully understand your requirements so we can personally find you the best matches.
How much does registration cost?
A registration fee of £50 allows you to receive manually processed matches for 6 months (you receive one email with the link to your profile, and then you need to check it on regular basis, as new people join our programme daily, and it gets updated regularly), attend one face to face event. After your first event, you are welcome to join more events during your membership period for £20 per event.
I don’t like any of my matches, can I get a refund?
If you had introductory meeting and received the link to your profile with or without your matches then we are unable to offer you a refund, as it means that the service had been already provided. The fee allows us to provide you with a personal meeting with a member of our team, followed by manually selected matches.
We strive to offer you the best service, however whether you receive matches and what kind of matches you receive depend on your profile and your criteria.
If you registered, but did not have yet an introductory zoom meeting, then we can offer a full refund within 14 days of registration.
Will my profile be visible to all users on the database?
Your profile will only be visible to users who are matched with you.
Can other members see my personal information?
No. Your name, phone number, postcode, and date of birth are kept private. Other members will only see your age and a unique profile ID no. to use when expressing an interest. Only if you like each other, then email and first name are shared between you two.
I have submitted my interest; how will I know if they like me back?
You don’t need to do anything from here. Our team are diligently tracking and will contact you as soon as you receive a mutual interest. Usually this is updated once a month and then if you had a mutual interest, then both will be invited for a bonus mini event. During this event you will be invited to be part of a the small group of other participants in couples, there will be a facilitated discussion and you will be able to talk directly to your selected partner. Mahrams are welcome, but not obligatory (1 per person or more, if space permits).
How do you verify members?
We have a team who manually verify each user who registers and pays registration fee. We conduct an introductory meeting with all our members where they are required to provide evidence of their identity and status in this country.
I am a sister; can I have my introductory meeting with a female?
We have a female-led team, at the moment all of our meetings are conducted by a female. In emergencies there might be last minute substitute with a male member of our team, but so far, we did not have any.
Can I use the service on behalf of another person?
We ask that all participants looking for a spouse register themselves for the purpose of safeguarding personal information. Thus, if you are a parent, sister, brother, friend or relative and what to register someone else, this is not possible, they have to register themselves, but you can send them link and pay for service, if you like. In case if payment is made by another person, please notify us via email about this: [email protected].

Can I come and talk to you in person?
Our team can be contacted via email, please don’t hesitate to contact us there where you will receive a prompt response inshaAllah. To keep costs of the progamme to a minimum, we do not have a permanent office, but you are welcome to talk to a member of the staff or volunteer during our face-to-face events.
Can I call you?
Whilst we do not make personal calls, please do not hesitate to contact us via email at [email protected].
I haven’t received any emails from you since I registered
Please always check your spam folder, after you register (fill in the form and make the payment of £50, you should receive an email with the link to book an introductory meeting – this email is automatic, if you have not received it, please check your spam folder and nothing is there, please email us at [email protected]).
Do you accept registrations from outside the UK?
Our service is mainly for the ummah of brothers and sisters in London, but we do have some international applicants as well. You are welcome to register, but it is worth taking into account that currently most of the participants are looking for their spouse in the UK, and only few would be willing to move abroad. Please do note that our face-to-face events at the moment are always held in London.
I live outside London; can I still register?
Whilst the majority of our members reside in London, we do have some participants who are based in other cities across the UK and/or willing to relocate. Please do note that our face to face events at the moment are always held in London.
What is the registration process?
Step 1. Complete the online registration form
Step 2. Have your Zoom introductory meeting with us - at this stage you will be asked to provide evidence of your identity and residency here in the UK.
Step 3. After the zoom meeting, in approximately 2–4 weeks, we will send you an email with the link to your profile – underneath your profile there will be a list of potential matches.
How does it work?
A member of our team will have an introductory zoom meeting with you to confirm your identity/ status and discuss your preferences. We will then manually select the best matches for you based on the information you have provided. If you are interested in any of your matches, you complete a form with their personal ID no. and yours. When you receive a mutual interest, we will contact you to arrange a meeting between you both. You are also invited to attend face to face events at the mosque where you will have the opportunity to meet potential matches in person.
I’m not interested in any of my matches
We receive new participants regularly, please check your profile link every couple of weeks to find potential matches. We strive our best to provide you with the most suitable matches, and the rest is up to you : ) if you don’t find a suitable match amongst your list, don’t worry, check the same link again in a couple of weeks for an updated list.
Contact Us:
For queries, email: [email protected]
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  • "I attended the event in March and I found my spouse! We got our Nikkah done recently in August Alhumdullilah! May Allah swt reward you all for giving people the opportunity to find their spouses in a halal setting.

    I believe after using many other platforms by far FYS is the best platform for 2 people to unite in marriage!"


  • "I would like to personally thank you all for your effort, time, and dedication. The amount of effort behind this project is immense."


  • "It is by far one of the best Muslim matrimonial speed dating event I’ve been to. It’s really good that you have different question’s which are relevant to marriage and practical for the participants. It's also value for money compared to other events which charge extortionate prices and provide no refreshments."

  • "Thank you for the big efforts you are doing to get us married in a halal way. I appreciate what are you doing for the Muslim community."



  • "May Allah bless you all for your efforts and stress, your saving many from bad things, and redeeming many more biithnillah"

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